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3 Mistakes Parents Make When Packing School Lunches PLUS What To Do Instead!

It’s back to school time and if you pack lunches for your kiddos, there’s nothing more stressful than trying to decide on the BEST foods to pack for those long school days.

Thankfully, Jenn Espinosa-Goswami from Weightless Chronicles is here on The Running Mama to help ALL of us WIN  the battle of the “box” (lunch-box that is!) 

 

You don’t want your kid to eat questionable school lunches, so you pack a healthy home lunch. Yet, is that home lunch providing your child with everything they need for a super day?

 

Read more on how to make superior sandwiches, put the “pow!” in produce, and deter deceptive drinks (plus recipes).

 

 

Back in 2017, I decided to pack school lunches for my two daughters. As a health coach, you would think it would be easy, right?

It’s not as if I can’t figure out how to create a healthy and balanced meal, how to please a picky palate, or even how to bake healthier treats.

Despite all of this, I would deal with hangry children on the way home from school. Children who either a) refused to eat what I packed for them –or– b) preferred to eat all their “treats” instead of the healthier options.

There were even times when I discovered a rotting piece of fruit at the bottom of their school bag at the end of the year.

Did I mention that my two daughters prefer to eat exactly opposite of each other? While one leans towards more standard American fare such as bunless hot dogs and hamburgers, my other daughter doesn’t eat beef, and loves her carbs.

What’s a busy mom to do? Well, I did what any time-starved mom of picky kids would do. I defaulted to the classic school lunch ideas, such as a sandwich, piece of fruit, potato chips and juice. Convenient, grab-and-go items that didn’t break my budget or end up in the trash at the end of the day.

If I was less persistent, I could have simply given them lunch money and called it a day. Yet, this fascinating article from the New York Times shares how kids hate how school lunches taste under the new regulations of the Healthy, Hunger-Free Kids Act.

The truth is- I care how my kids eat when they’re not at home. Maybe that means I’m a control freak, maybe it means I’m all too familiar with the loopholes in school lunches that enabled my own childhood obesity, or maybe it just means I want my kids to embrace a wider variety of foods that they actually love to eat.

Plus, I want my kids to have a superhero kind of day at school. One where they feel strong, smart and fast (details on how to pack food for your own Superhero)

 

3 Mistakes Parents Make Packing School Lunches 

Balance, Balance BALANCE: What a Great Lunch SHOULD Look Like: 

 

Before we dive into the 3 mistakes most parents make when packing lunch, let’s talk about what a balanced meal actually looks like.

Many school lunches are based on the concepts behind MyPlate. MyPlate is the USDA’s guide to healthy eating and is frequently taught in schools as well as informs the menu for most hot school lunches. Previously, MyPlate was known as a Food Pyramid.

MyPlate encourages Americans to choose from 5 very colorful food groups in order to eat a healthy and balanced meal. Unfortunately, this is not a very helpful or accurate guide.

When I asked my Facebook community to identify what they typically pack in their kid’s school lunch, this seems to be the same thought process- pull from each of these 5 food groups for a healthy, balanced meal.

First, they make sure their kid has a choice of fruit and vegetables. Then, they pepper in some sort of grain (unless they are gluten-free). And, last, they add in whatever protein their kid will actually eat.

For those super parents who have taught their children as young as 6 to pack their OWN school lunch, their kids simply grab and go from containers marked with each of these categories.

Notice: My Plate recommends a separate serving of dairy. While few parents I asked include milk in their kid’s cold lunch, it is a mandatory offering not just in school lunches, but also in every kid’s meal in restaurants.

While I am not vegan, there is no nutritional requirement for children to drink milk every day as part of a balanced meal. In fact, there are much healthier sources of calcium that are easier for our bodies to break down and absorb, such as spinach, kale and chia seeds.

What is actually wrong with MyPlate? Over 3/4 of each meal should be full of carbohydrates!

Sure, this might be appropriate for a very active and growing child, but perhaps not for an inactive child who tends to eat more grains than produce. Or a child who spends the average 3 hours a day on a device or in front of a screen.

Also, My Plate neglects the fat. All of us need healthy sources of fat for healthy brains. As our kids spend most of their time in school learning new and unfamiliar concepts, they certainly can benefit from more brain food! Yet, this very important macronutrient is frequently missing from most recommendations.

Now we know why the MyPlate recommendations might not be particularly balanced, how does this change how you currently pack a school lunch?

Here is the typical home lunch:

  • Sandwich
  • Fruit and/or Veggie
  • Sweet or savory snacks
  • Milk/Juice

Now let’s walk through 3 common mistakes parents make when packing this typical lunch (and what to do instead!).

 

3 Mistakes Parents make packing school lunches and how to pack healthy school lunches or what to pack instead

3 Mistakes Parents Make When Packing School Lunches (and what you can do instead!):

 

Sandwich Secrets

Did you know that the average American will eat up to 3,000 PB&J sandwiches in their lifetime?

Even if you avoid peanut butter, due to allergies in your kid’s classroom, you might find yourself packing convenience foods like Lunchables or Uncrustables.

Unfortunately, Lunchables can have up to 67 ingredients in one box for a simple meat and cheese plate. Sounds rather crazy, doesn’t it? Uncrustables is not far behind and includes many trans fats and corn syrup.

OK, so you do the right thing and create your own PB&J sandwich on whole-grain bread.

At least you know what ingredients are in there. Strictly speaking, when we look at the macronutrient breakdown of the classic PB&J sandwich, you have carbs (bread and jelly) and a bit of protein (peanut butter).

While the fiber in the whole grain bread will slow down the digestion of this sando, it’s mostly carbs. Add a side of fruit and juice box, and your kid will be falling asleep by 2.

This doesn’t mean you can’t feed your kid PB&J, but it may not be your healthiest or most balanced go-to. Instead, you could use peanut butter as a dip for apple slices, or use real strawberries instead of jam.

How about meat and cheese with crackers? Most deli lunch meats contain high amounts of sodium and nitrates. Also, the World Health Organization (WHO) released a study in 2015 linking high consumption of processed meats to cancer.

Also, most crackers are full of ingredients you may wish to avoid, even whole grain and organic ones. Try these 5 ingredient, super-easy rosemary beet crackers or nut-free apple pie crackers instead!

When it comes to sandwiches, try whole-grain flatbreads or homemade veggie wraps, and use shredded meats from your own slow cooker. Better yet, think beyond the sandwich, and go for meatballs or veggies with dips. 

Switch from the sandwich mistake in packing your kiddos school lunches and gain back your energic kiddo! 

Powerful Produce

Most parents require that their children have at least one fruit or veggie in their home lunch.

And, most parents shake their head when their kid brings back ONLY the fruit or veggie. You know, because they “ran out time” to eat.

Hey, I feel your pain. After all, I declared at the wise age of 18 that I would never eat another green veggie again!

You are doing your part by buying the healthy produce, and even chopping and prepping it into snack-size backs.

The secret ingredient is to make the produce fun or unexpected!

  • Instead of plain carrot sticks or celery, can you include a yogurt-based dip or nut butter
  • Instead of beef or turkey meatballs, try these veggie meatballs. Extra credit for spearing them with colorful toothpicks for convenience.
  • Instead of steamed, try making baked or sauteed “fritters” out of them, like these bacon and spaghetti squash
  • Instead of chips made from potatoes, try homemade zucchini chips, or baked parsnip or yucca fries.
  • Instead of room temp grapes or bananas, try freezing them (slice the bananas first)
  • Instead of sliced strawberries or berries, put them in this frozen yogurt bark
  • Instead of whole fruit, make fruit kebabs

Be very slow and cautious with introducing these new ideas to your kids. After all, it can take up to 8 tries before a kid’s picky palate accepts these new adaptations.

Better yet, have them make these items WITH you. They may even come up with their own ideas.

Deceiving Drinks

Whoever decided that our kids need to load up on calorie-laden, sugar-rich drinks has created a monster!

I’m not even joking. I can’t tell you how many women I work with who struggle with drinking enough water to hydrate properly throughout the day. Often, this unhealthy habit often starts in childhood, and especially as we replace our childhood juice or milk with more adult pleasures like wine or lattes.

Especially if your kid has been in any sort of team sports- you have to work REALLY hard to avoid juices, sports drinks, or (God forbid) energy drinks!

But, you are aware of the dangers of sugar, and make sure to pack only 100% and organic juice or skim milk. That’s healthy, right?

Not really.

Juice is often full of artificial sweeteners, colors, and calories. None of which any child needs on a daily basis. In my own experience, my daughter will often drink her juice before she eats anything, which means she might crash right after lunch.

Skim milk may not be doing your child any favors, either. Whenever fat is removed from a food, sugar is often added. In this study published in Time, people who ate/drank full-fat dairy had a 46% lower risk of developing diabetes.

Water is the best drink for your child. Use a fun, colorful bottle with a straw, a stainless steel bottle that keeps the water nicely chilled, or even infuse your child’s water with some fresh fruit.

 

Conclusion: 

Now that you know the benefits of using a macro-based plan to packing your kid’s lunch, and tons of strategies to avoid common mistakes, you can confidently pack a balanced and yummy lunch that your kids will actually enjoy!

 

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All About the Author:Back to School Post School Lunches

Meet Jenn! 

Jenn Espinosa-Goswami has spent her entire life releasing her inner Wonder Woman, beginning with her 100-pound weight loss as a young college student and most recently as a marathon runner. Her passion as a speaker and health coach is to facilitate body bliss for every woman and their families.

A member of the National Weight Control Registry, her 100-pound weight loss story has been featured on Women’s Health, Prevention, Reader’s Digest, First for Women magazine, and Fox.

When not presenting motivational presentations to brands such as Target, Wells Fargo and TOPS in Minneapolis, she blogs at www.weightlesschronicles.com.  Jennifer is a wife and mother to two beautiful daughters.  You may find her dancing in her living room with her girls or enjoying a bean burrito.

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FUN and Easy Fourth of July Food!

The Fourth of July is almost here! If you’re looking for some easy, fun, yet patriotic treats to celebrate the big day, (or any day throughout the month of July), look no further!  We have you covered with some tasty treats and oh-so perfectly  patriotic drinks sure to kick start your celebrations!

 

Red White and Blue 4th of July Rocket Hot Dogs

Rocket Dogs! 

Celebrate the birth of America with a little firework food! These rocket dogs use three simple food ingredients: hot dogs, crescent rolls cut in strips and marbled Monterrey Jack cheese cut into triangles! Add in the sticks and the patriotic cup cake wrappers and you’ve got an edible rocket! Easy peasy! 

Red, White and Blue Rice Krispie treats for the 4th of July and Memorial Day bbq's!

Red, White and Blue Firecracker Krispies 

These super easy treats are sure to be a big hit this summer! If you don’t have time to make your own Rice Krispie Treats, simply buy them pre-made, grab some Wilton’s candy melts in the color you need and go to town! You can find more about this awesome dessert on www.lifelovesugar.com

Recipes - Fourth of July Dipped Pretzels at createcraftlove.com

 

Patriotic Pretzel Wands! 

Not only are these pretzel wands created by createcraftlove.com super yummy, but they make an adorable table center piece to your upcoming Fourth of July or summer picnic! Dipping pretzel wands happens to be a family favorite activity over at our house so these will be top on the list this Fourth of July!  Not only are they easy, but you can make several mason jars filled with them to hand out as treats during a Fourth of July or summer get-together! Yay! 

Just need star cookie cutter! Slice watermelon and cut star shapes out of them for a beautifully festive fruit salad. | 31 Last-Minute Fourth Of July Decorating Tricks

Fabulously Fruity Fourth! 

Have your kids seeing stars while enjoying some summer time fruit! Cut out some water melon, then, with a star cookie cutter, shape out some adorable stars while adding in some blueberries and you’ve got the perfect mix of fabulously fruity patriotic perfection!   Whole watermelons just happen to be on sale at most grocery stores this time of year…so get your melon on! 

 

kid-friendly patriotic punch

Kids Red, White and Blue Patriotic Punch! 

 

This is one of my favorite ideas yet! The creation of this awesome drink takes a little bit of some “kitchen science” as our source, momendevors, puts it…but honestly, it’s all in the sugar content. Start by adding the juice with the highest sugar content first (red juice was the highest in this recipe) and use ice as a buffer. Grab the next juice with the second to highest sugar count, buffer with ice and repeat with the last color!

If you need something a bit quicker and more straight forward….here’s another recipe that looked equally as yummy…but might be a little more straight forward from www.eatingonadime.com

How to make Red, White, and Blue Drink

Kids Patriotic Punch!

 

 

 

Red, White, and Blue Vodka Lemonade Slush!  Yummm! Adult Fourth of July fun!

 

Frozen Firecracker Drinks: Vodka Lemonade Slush-YUM!

Why should the kiddos have all of the fun this Fourth of July? This awesome concoction is one my husband and I are gearing up to try on Wednesday! Oh, and no, they aren’t layered in correct red, white and blue order…something to do with the the thickness of each ingredient…but,gotta say, it looks like pure YUM. The vodka is actually mixed in at the end into the lemonade mixture, while grenadine (for the red) and blue curacao (for the blue) are combined with ice. 

We’ve decided to try it this way: Try this: Add red Gatorade with ice and repeat with blue Gatorade and ice to make your slush combo. We’re trying it today..will let you know how it goes! 

Another little side note, we figured we would add a little distinction between our Firecracker drinks and the kiddos Patriotic Punch by putting labels on our cups and NOT adding Twizzlers to ours! 

 

Whether you’re celebrating the birthday of the United States or you’re simply celebrating summer, these quick ideas will have you ready for the fireworks way before the sunsets! 

 

Happy Birthday America and Happy Summer to all! 

The BEST Valentine’s Day Activities for Kids!

 

Like many of us, I’m a BIG fan of Pinterest. 

I TRY everything I can on that platform–(emphasis on the TRY!)

Well, let me rephrase that.

I TRY everything I can possibly fit into my day/week that focuses on kid’s activities, crafts and learning on Pinterest. Ah. There. Better! 

I like to think of myself as fairly crafty but I will also tell you, NOT everything we do looks as “Martha Stewart” pretty as it does on Pinterest (hence the popularity of #pinterestfails!) 

From all of these imperfect Pinterest executions, I found the best activities for kids for Valentine’s Day!

The secret decoder one is definitely what I would deem as an imperfectly perfect pin execution of ours and the other activity…is just adorable! 

Either way, your kiddos are sure to L-O-V-E these activities! 

Even if they’re NOT as “Pinterest pretty” as you would like…no worries! Kiddos are making them…NOT our Cricket machines! 

I guarantee that they will remember the feeling from creating them with you than anything else! 

Now on to some awesomely creative Valentine’s Day activities! 

Secret Decoder Valentine’s Messages 

Secret Message Valentine @amandaformaro Crafts by Amanda

Picture Credit: CraftsbyAmanda 

This activity was an absolute FAVORITE last year and I can’t wait to start it up again this weekend! 

We created special secret decoder Valentine’s messages every day leading up to (and after) Valentine’s Day for each of our kids.

Every morning in February, they would wake up to find a new heart taped to their door with a secret message on it for them to decode. 

The messages focused on why we love them each so much. 

This activity is not only fun, but it’s an awesome way to hone in on why you love your kiddos so much and to emphasize those reasons with them.

I also did this with my hubby–it was pretty awesome! **Side note there**

I MUST admit, it really helped me to focus on those little reasons why I love my hubby so much.

Let’s face it, on any given busy, blurry day, it’s hard to think about how much you love it when your partner simply looks at you and smiles.

Below are all of the details on this adorable Valentine’s activity:

Here’s what you need:

1. White Crayon

2. Cardstock or plain white paper (hint: wax crayon sticks better to cardstock)

3. Scissors

4. Tape

5. Watercolor paint (ONLY) or Markers! (Lighter colors are best!)

Suggestions on How to Create and Execute this Activity: 

1.After your little loves go to sleep (or whenever it’s best for you!) create your secret Valentine’s hearts by cutting out any size heart shape you would like! 

2. Take a white crayon and write your secret message on cardstock paper.

I focused on specific things they do and things about their personalities that make them unique~ (why I love them so)~

i.e. their laughter, a time when they were generous, how they help out around the house, a special trait like how well they read, draw, play a sport, etc. 

I usually start my heart messages out with “We love how you…”

I also created these for my husband which we loved exchanging back and forth!   “We love how much you always make certain that everyone is happy”.

2. Hang them up on your little love’s doors for them to take down when they wake up!  

They will LOVE waking up every morning to decode a new secret message! 

The Running Mama Valentine's Day secret messages

Best Valentine’s Day Activities! Decoding the messages is so much fun!

Here’s an up-close view of our hearts from last year! We are using watercolors this year! 

Valentine's Day secret messages The Running Mama

Our perfectly imperfect pin execution!

Bonus Learning Opportunity: This adorable Valentine’s Day activity turned into a discussion about how wax is resistant to the watercolor in markers.

Such a great time!

Valentine's Day secret messages The Running Mama

On our daughter’s door: secret messages stating why we love her.

Our daughter loved this Valentine’s activity so much that she made one for her daddy and I. It reads: Mommy and Daddy, I love making crafts together”.

Valentine's Day Secret Messages The Running Mama

Valentines for All! Our daughter making her own for us…adorable.

                         Valentine’s Day Scavenger Hunt 

The Running Mama Valentine's Day Scavenger Hunt Clues

Hunt your way through Valentine’s Day!

Another fun way to celebrate Valentine’s Day is with a scavenger hunt…complete with clues!

This adorable scavenger hunt is easy to print up, cut out and set up around your home. 

Use all of the clues or choose only four (depending on how you’re feeling)! 

Last year, I did an activity without ANY preparation last year. 

I printed these ON Valentine’s Day…that’s how forward thinking I was–HA! 

But on a positive note…it gives you a good idea of how quick and easy this can be. 

Don’t have prizes ready? No problem! Throw a bag of fruit snacks, a heart-shaped donut, a special note, or print up free coloring pages at the end! 

Your kiddos will just be THRILLED to run around the house looking for that extra special Valentine’s Day Surprise! 

Have fun with these Valentine’s Day Activities!

Sharing is Caring-we would love to know about your favorite Valentine’s Day Activities! Share below!  

Want some other awesome printables? Check these freebies out! 

Achieve: The Classic Come Back Story

 

Goals

Going after your dreams-not as crazy as it seems-or cliché

What is it about a good come back story that entrances us so? The idea that someone has looked fear in the face, laughed and pursued their goal anyway? Is it the lingering question regarding: “how in the world did that person overcome—- and achieve their goals?” Maybe it’s in the midst of our own struggles when we long for some type rejuvenation, and stumble upon  this amazing story which, almost magically, enables us to breathe again and say:”if they can do it, so can I! “. Whatever it is, I know I’m a “come back” junkie. I could watch “Under the Tuscan Sun”, “I Don’t Know How She Does It”, (and don’t laugh), “Bridesmaids”, over and over and over again. Why? Each of those stories circles around a lead female character,(to whom I can relate), who undergoes some serious life altering circumstances; only to come out on top.

Faith and believing

Finding Faith

They Built the Train Tracks Across the Alps BEFORE…

Undoubtedly one of my favorite lines from Under the Tuscan Sun is imbedded in the simple rule of “keeping the faith”. In one of my favorite scenes from this movie, a very distraught Diane Lane is in the midst of despair;  pouring her heart out to her newly found Italian friend. In an effort to aid her, he tells her the story about the train tracks that cross the great Alps. The tracks were built before people knew a train could cross them. They built them anyway knowing one day, a train would come.

Ah, yes, faith. Something that my mind only visits every now and then but, at the same time, something I feel greatly connected to. No worries, I’m not going completely religious here but I do think that faith, in whatever form you may find it, is significant. For me, I feel deeply connected but often, almost strangely, “forget” to use it.

One of the questions we should ask ourselves, then, is what do we have faith in? Do we have it in ourselves to create our very own “come back” story? In our support systems like family or friends?  Remember, faith is more than a religion; it’s a deep belief, a guiding principal. Ask yourself,( as you begin your own “come back” story), what or who you have faith in. Here’s a hint: YOU should make the top of the list. Anything and everything amazing that happens moving forward begins with you.

love you

Love your life–you’re the author!

Start Crafting The Life You LOVE

What is the life you would LOVE to live? Are you already living it and are aspiring toward other goals or is there something you would love to do but haven’t “quite gotten there” yet? Back when I was a tad younger, I worked for Gap. Believe it or not, I LOVED working for this company. Perhaps it was my manager, Michelle, who was amazing, or just the brand itself but I absolutely found it to be my relax time away from other things. I certainly wasn’t living the exact life I wanted at the time but I certainly enjoyed what I was doing. I knew that whatever it was that I started to do for my career, it had to be something that I absolutely LOVED doing. Find what you love, more than likely, you’re good at doing it. Craft your life around that love. Is it creating, teaching, being around children, animals? Make a short list of your top five-you can use the template I’ve created here to help you  :Do What I Love Goal Sheet

Do what you love

Don Fisher- Creator of Gap

The Gap Story. Or why I’m so Big On LOVING What You Do

Don Fisher with his wife Doris created The Gap back in the 1960’s when Don couldn’t find a pair of jeans he actually liked. Fast forward years and years later and he’s grown a brand. Why does this matter? Upon Don’s passing in 2009, each Gap employee was handed a little booklet with a bracelet. The booklet highlighted Don’s life, his contributions to the brand and one of his strong beliefs which read: LOVE WHAT YOU DO/ DO WHAT YOU LOVE. I mean, wow. I absolutely grabbed right onto this saying so much so that I still carry the little book and bracelet with me in my car.

Doris and Don Fisher-I took this picture while at Gap store recently

Don’s words certainly resonate when we’re trying to craft a life we LOVE. Certainly, he and his wife follow those words to heart. In order to live by true “Don Fisher fashion”: start with simple things and build from there. Begin by focusing on what you love to do, rather than what you HAVE to do. This is not to say that you shouldn’t pay those bills and save money in the meantime. However, I do believe we have to reprioritize our time away from our jobs, careers, and other activities that are not giving us what we need so we can define those steps to get back to what we love.

NOW is the time to Build Your Come Back List

There was a time I was actually scared to even ask myself what I really wanted out of life. What I wanted to achieve.  That time…was last week. I figured out that I was, and still are, afraid to admit what I really want to do for fear of failure or disappointment. Pretty silly-isn’t it? After all, how in the world are we going to “take the bull by the horns” and get after what we want if we’re frightened off so quickly? Now is the time to make that list. Here’s how:

  1. Brainstorm your “Do it, Because you Love it list”  and use it to narrow down one or two goals you want for YOU. This could be career goals or personal goals…either way. LOVE WHAT YOU DO!
  2. Create a plan of action for yourself. Within that love it and do it list, choose one item and create steps, almost like  stepping stones toward that goal. REMEMBER, a step is a STEP. This is YOUR journey. No one else’s.
  3. Be accountable. Set a date for your FIRST actual step. Write it down, tell family, friends and coworkers about it. Shout it from the rooftops! Anything to help you be accountable for taking action!
  4. Celebrate once you’ve taken and completed a step toward your goal. This can be anything from a good high-five to yourself, bragging rights to a friend or grabbing that chocolate milkshake you’ve been longing for (or maybe that’s just me right now).
  5. Continue the momentum! Once a step has been taken and a celebration has ensued, REPEAT the same steps!

I’m ready for a come back….are you?